10 Signs Your Cat Trusts You (And One That Might Surprise You)

10 Signs Your Cat Trusts You (And One That Might Surprise You)

Our feline friends are independent by nature, and earning their trust takes our time, dedication, and appreciation for their independence. Once we put in the effort to gain their trust, they can show it in the most heartwarming ways possible. Here are some signs to watch for to tell if your furry friend sees you as more than a personal chef and unpaid sanitation worker. The last one is sure to surprise you!

"Cat slow-blinking to show affection and trust"

1. Slow Blinking: When your cat looks at you and slowly blinks, it's a "cat kiss." It means they feel safe and relaxed.

"Orange cat exposing belly in a relaxed, trusting pose"

2. Exposing the Belly: Showing their vulnerable belly is a huge sign of trust—even if they don’t want it touched!

"Tabby cat following owner and seeking attention"

3. Following You Around: If your cat follows you from room to room, they’re showing companionship and loyalty.

"Cat sleeping close to a person for warmth and security"

4. Sleeping Near You: Cats won’t sleep near people they don’t trust. If they nap beside you, consider it a compliment.

"Senior cat purring on owner’s lap for comfort and bonding"

5. Purring in Your Presence: A relaxed, soft purr while cuddling or sitting nearby is a sure sign they’re content with you.

"Tortoiseshell cat kneading a plush bed to show comfort"

6. Kneading: Also known as “making biscuits,” kneading is a leftover kitten behavior that signals comfort.

"Black cat bringing a mouse as a gift to the owner"

7. Bringing You “Gifts”: From toys to the occasional bug, your cat might share what they “hunt” as a token of trust.

"Tabby cat bunting a bearded man’s forehead outdoors, showing affection"

8. Head-Butting (Bunting): This is your cat marking you with their scent—a way of saying, “You’re mine.”

"Kitten grooming a man’s face as social bonding"

9. Grooming You: Licking your hand or hair mimics how cats groom family members.

"Fluffy cat with upright curved tail signaling happiness"

10. Tail Up and Curled at the Tip: A high tail with a gentle curve means your cat is happy to see you.

"Close-up of a Siamese cat lounging in warm sunlight, gazing softly at the camera"

And the surprising one?
Ignoring You! If your cat feels safe enough to ignore you while they nap or groom themselves thoroughly, it means they trust that you’ll not only keep their bowls filled and their litter box clean, but also that you have created a safe environment for them

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